Friday, April 9, 2010

Let's take a few steps back...

Many of you are wondering what happened after that call from WG.
What made me make the decision to walk away for good?
Well, I've been writing these posts in my head for a while now, and I decided it was time to finally share them. I've just been putting them off because it seemed like it would exhaust me to type it all out... or really, it would exhaust me just having to think about it all.
But you know what? It didn't. Not at all.
& I think that's a good thing. I think that's saying something.
I've spent the last few months tearing through feelings I had in the past,
not only for WG, but for someone else who re-entered the picture.
The key words in that statement are, "Feeling I had in the past".

Come back Monday & take a seat next to me...
I'll braid your hair and explain it all.

& THEN?
Then we can talk about the reason my heart is feeling happier than ever.
I took very good care of it when WG and I stopped dating...
& I'm oh so glad I did, because now it feels whole.
I don't need anyone to put it back together for me.
They can just feel free to make it grow.
& By "they", I mean "he"...
But you'll have to wait to hear about him ;)

Let's just hash through the rest of this first so it will all make sense.
See you Monday, lovies!
xo

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  1. I have to play catch up and find out whats been going on. Call on me if you want to chit chat lovie. Hugs!

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  2. can't wait to hear about it!! so glad that you took good care of your heart. mending a broken one is so hard to do.

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  3. I'm very anxiously awaiting this convo girlie! Have a fab weekend with "him". :)

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  4. oooo, the suspense...I want to know now! :)

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  5. I'll be here Monday...early. Can't wait.
    mary

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  6. oh my word. you are so leaving us hanging on a cliff! but i'll keep following along because i love it!!

    oh, and i really could use a good hair braiding. thanks! :)

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  7. Ooo Sounds good! :) Can't wait to hear the story.

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  8. Do you do fish tails too? I'll come back for one of those!

    I keed, I keed. I'll always come back no matter what, lady cakes. I am so happy to hear that you took good care of yourself, because seriously? That's really all we have at the end of the day. I'm proud of you.

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  9. aw i cant wait to find out what happened :) its good to hear good news from broken hearts

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  10. Yayy for catching up! Can't wait for monday and the rest of the new story. :)

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  11. French braids please, the kind with lots of little braids, I think they call it Fishboning. And you can just stop teasing us missy maam, so of us are on pins and needles.

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  12. i'll be here with tea and cupcakes ready to hear (:

    -cris

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  13. Will you really braid my hair? Because I love when people braid my hair :)

    Can't wait for all the details.

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  14. Way to get me anxious for Monday!
    I'm glad your heart is whole and things are better than ever. you deserve it!

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  15. I am excited to hear all about it. I love me a good love story. :) haha.

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    www.sofarsogreat1.blogspot.com

    thanks! :)

    -makay

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    http://aislinnminer.blogspot.com/

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  17. Oh girl I am sooo glad you are feeling this way! Been there, let me tell ya sometimes it's just better to be done and move on:-)

    Can't wait to hear more

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  18. I will be here tomorrow with bells on!!

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